From Diapers to Dating

图书信息

作者	Haffner, Debra W.
出版社	Newmarket Press
ISBN	9781557048714
出版时间	2009-08-01
字数	47.6万
分类	Newmarket Press,进口书,外文原版书,法律,政治,宗教

读书简介

This widely recommended parenting guide offers a wealth of practical techniques to help you identify and communicate your own values about sexuality to your children, infants to age twelve. In this revised edition, acclaimed parenting educator Debra Haffner covers the latest research and addresses issues of timely concern, including Internet safety. The book includes: "Values Exercises" to help you identify and communicate your beliefs to your children "Special Issues" to advise you on discussing difficult topics "Teachable Moments" to help you recognize opportunities or entry points into a discussion of important issues. "I believe it is up to you and your partner to decide on the messages and values you want to give your child about sexuality," Haffner writes. "It is your right and your responsibility to share them with your child."

目录

Cover

Praise

Title Page

Table of Contents

Acknowledgements

Foreword

Foreword to the First Edition

Chapter 1 - The Basics

Sexually Healthy Families

The Key: Finding Teachable Moments

Guidelines for Communication

Chapter 2 - Infants and Toddlers Birth to Age 2

Sexual Development of Infants

Parents’ Feelings

The Importance of Touch

The Circumcision Decision

First Days at Home

Teaching the Parts of the Body

Genital Exploration

Thinking through Gender Roles

Your Child-Care Provider

Chapter 3 - The Preschool Years Ages 2 to 5

Teaching the Parts of the Body

Bath Time

“I Want to Be Alone!”

Genital Touching

“We’re Just Playing Doctor, Mom”

Friendships and Feelings

“When I Grow Up, I’m Going to Marry Mommy”

“Is My Son Gay?”

“Where Do I Come From?”

When Your Child Walks in When You Are Making Love

Your Preschool

Sexual Abuse

Chapter 4 - Early Elementary School Ages 5 to 8

Your Child Is Growing Up

Teaching Your Child the Facts of Life

Bath Time

Masturbation

More on Sex Play

Friendships

Tomboys and Sissy Girls

Going to Other People’s Houses

“But All the Kids Watch It”

The News

Working with the Elementary School

“Tag, You Have AIDS”

“Oh S@#$!”

“The Britney Syndrome”

Divorce

Parents Dating

When Your Child Isn’t Conceived the “When Mommy and Daddy Love Each Other” Way

Chapter 5 - Upper Elementary School Ages 9 to 12

Preparing for Puberty

Preparing Your Daughter for Puberty

Preparing Your Son for Puberty

For Boys and Girls

A Few Words about Early and Late Developers

“Am I Normal?”

Emotional Development

The Preteenager with No Questions

Masturbation

Going Together

“Mom, I Think I’m Gay”

Body Image, Appearance, and Dieting

Teen Magazines

“Dad, Will You Buy Me a Playboy?”

The Internet

Hostile Hallways

How to Evaluate Sexuality Education Outside of the Home

Afterword

Appendix - Sources for More Information

References

Index

Acclaimed Parenting Books

Copyright Page